Today is a sad day...sad because a very close friend of mine is grieving...the loss of a father. I was shocked to receive the call at 3 in the morning, to tell me that his dad just died of heart attack. I couldn't believe my ears, and all I could think about was asking, "Are you alright? Are you fine?". Because I wasn't sure how things were, especially for him.

Just hours after Father's day, a sad news coming in, to show us how fragile, and unpredictable this life can be. My friend is sad, sad because he didn't get a chance to tell his dad how much he loved him. You see, my friend's dad was away in Seremban, on a business trip. Going into the interior side where there is no reception of network service, my friend tried calling yesterday to wish his dad a happy father's day, but just could not get through.

Just to know that the people closest to you, who mean the most to you, and never have an opportunity to be with them, either on their deathbed is very devastating. That's when the lost feels so intense, so vivid. No chance to even say that you love them, is one of the worst things in life.

One could never comprehend the deep losses of life. I know what it feels like, I almost lost my dad once. Now, I am appreciative of the moments I share with my family. After all, in this short lifespan, no one can predict what is to happen tomorrow. What better way to live life loving the people you care for in the best of your capacity?

I feel the hurt my friend is going through. I didn't have a good day, because part of the Body is hurting. When one is hurting, all of us feel it.

Benji, we are standing with you. Remember, we are all here for you.